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Book Name: The 5 Love Languages
Authors: Gary Chapman
Pages: 208
Genre: Christian literature
Publish Date: January 1, 2015
Language: English

Summary:

"The 5 Love Languages". It was written by Gary Chapman and in it, he reveals the secrets to love that lasts by discussing the idea that we all have love languages. By figuring out what our primary love languages are, and what our loved one’s are, we can have higher quality relationships in our lives.

The book is a super simple read as well and I couldn’t put it down, I actually read the entire thing in 24 hours which is something definitely never done before! And I want to start this video by saying that I really believe everyone should read this book and I mean everyone, especially some of us guys out there.

I think most people would look at the cover of the book and feel that it’s only for people who are in romantic relationships, but I don’t think that’s the case.

I mean yeah, the primary audience is for couples looking to make their relationship the greatest it can be, but I also think it’s good for people looking to get into relationships, maybe for those looking to understand why a relationship didn’t work out, and also for people looking for better relationships with their friends, family, and anyone else they have in their lives.

I’m not someone who talks about this stuff a lot and when I do, it’s definitely not on YouTube, so if I’m taking the time to do this video today you should trust me, it’s a good book!

As I read The 5 Love Languages I learned a surprising amount about myself and the people in my life. I was able to think back and there were a lot of events from the past that all of a sudden made sense because of something discussed in the book and that’s why I couldn’t put it down.

I would read until the end of a chapter, make a bunch of connections, and then keep reading. Ultimately the idea of The 5 Love Languages is that we express love in many ways and sometimes that love is received and sometimes it’s not. How can action or compliment be made out of love, but not interpreted that way? Well basically, we all express our love in ways that makes sense to us.

If I’m someone who likes to receive gifts, I’m probably going to be someone who likes to give gifts, but what happens when the person receiving that gift doesn’t like gifts? Gary Chapman uses this book to outline that by learning to express your love in your spouse’s love language, you will be able to obtain a higher quality relationship than you’ve ever had before.

No matter how good your relationship with someone is, it can always be better. The five love languages he teaches about are words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch and I don’t want to go through each love language in it would take a lot of time and to be honest I just really want you to read the book because it’s so good!

Instead, I want to challenge you to think about those five love languages I just described: words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch, and go ahead and think about which one you think your love language is.

For me, I know it’s definitely not receiving gifts and I know it’s definitely spending quality time with the people I love. There’s no doubt in my mind about that. Then go ahead and think about someone you love. That might be your husband or wife, it might be a family member, or it might be a really good friend.

I want you to think about that person and what their primary love language is and think about how you can do something today to say “I love you” in a way that makes sense to them.

The book goes on to talk about a few more important topics like “love is a choice” and “loving the unlovely” and then wraps up with the love language profiles which allow you to take a quiz that determines what your primary love language is. My friends and I have gone online to do this quiz,

I’ve made a commitment to reading this book once a year for the rest of my life. What do you think about The 5 Love Languages? Is it something that makes sense to you, or is it something you still have questions about?

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